The "Wait and See" Dilemma
If your toddler isn't talking as much as their peers, you've probably received well-meaning advice to "just wait" because "they'll catch up." Sometimes individuals do catch up on their own. But sometimes they don't, and early intervention makes a significant difference.
So how do you know which path the individual is on?
What's Typical?
Language development varies widely, but here are general guidelines:
By 12 months:
- Babbling with different sounds
- Responding to their name
- Understanding simple words like "no" and "bye-bye"
- Using gestures (waving, pointing)
By 18 months:
- Using at least 5-10 words
- Understanding more words than they say
- Pointing to show you things
By 24 months:
- Using 50+ words
- Starting to combine two words ("more milk," "daddy go")
- Following simple directions
Red Flags That Suggest Acting Now
While every individual develops differently, certain signs suggest evaluation is a good idea:
- No babbling by 12 months
- No gestures by 12 months
- No words by 16 months
- No two-word phrases by 24 months
- Loss of previously acquired words or skills
- Difficulty understanding simple language
Why Early Intervention Matters
Research consistently shows that early intervention leads to better outcomes. Individuals' brains are incredibly plastic in the first few years. Starting therapy early doesn't mean something is "wrong" with the individual—it means you're giving them the best possible support during a critical learning window.
What We Do Differently
At Empowered Therapy Collective, we don't just focus on getting more words. We look at:
- How the individual communicates (gestures, sounds, eye contact)
- Their play skills and interests
- How they understand language
- Their overall development
We work WITH the individual's natural communication style, not against it.
Next Steps
If you're concerned, trust your instincts. A speech evaluation can provide clarity and peace of mind. If the individual is developing typically, you'll know. If support would help, you'll have a plan.
You know the individual best. Seeking answers isn't overreacting—it's advocating.